The Genius in the Obvious

     There sure seems to be a lot going on in the world these days! However, unless you spend most of your time hiding under a rock, there is likely always stuff happening in your life. As life unfolds, there is a great chance that there will be something about it that triggers you - whether you become angry, hopeless, frustrated or even happy or excited.
     When you turn towards the "dark side", chances are you also get knocked out of the present. On an energy level, you become 4 years old, back at that time your mom said "NO", or 7 years old when the event you were looking forwards to was cancelled, or some other time in the past.
     Most of the time when you get triggered, you don't recognize that you've become 7 years old, so you begin to attempt to solve what you're feeling. Unfortunately, there is not a solution to 7 years old. The answer is to be back in the present, and de-energize the event from the past so you can release it and get back on track.
     We call this whole dynamic, "Losing Your Space". When you lose your space, there is a tendency to over complicate the situation, and to look for extraordinary causes of why you don't feel like yourself. For me, I couldn't figure out why I was  feeling listless and then be reminded "Didn't you talk with you mother a few days ago?". Just my mother's worry about me was having an impact. We've done business readings where unresolved relationships were the issue. Health issues that were triggered by the time of the year, because there was a death in the family at that time of year a few years ago. When you have something happening with you, our typical question is when did it start, and what was happening in your life at that time?
     The solution then is to release the charge that those past events trigger you. We call it "Making Separations". It is easy to lose your space to what is going on around you. Start by checking the obvious: do you have any separation from the energy of the Pandemic? The Election? The Economic uncertainty? Then you can check closer to home - do you have  any separation from those you live with, those you work with, your family. Did something happen to you recently? Become a master of the obvious. That is where I usually find the answer.
     Making separations is easy to learn. It is one of the main things we teach. If you already know how, practice looking for the obvious. If you don't know how, come on in and learn.

Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!.